diff --git a/content/where-to-find-me-elsewhere-on-the-web.md b/content/where-to-find-me-elsewhere-on-the-web.md
index 7c2975f..67ec22b 100644
--- a/content/where-to-find-me-elsewhere-on-the-web.md
+++ b/content/where-to-find-me-elsewhere-on-the-web.md
@@ -4,16 +4,22 @@ date: 2017-11-28T16:22:42
 tags:
 - 'social'
 - 'contact'
+- 'chat'
 ---
 
--   [email](mailto:ben@tilde.team)
--   [wire](https://wire.com) @bharris
--   [matrix/riot](http://riot.im) @benh:matrix.org
--   [telegram](https://t.me/bharris)
--   [twitter](https://twitter.com/nebsirrah)
--   [keybase](https://keybase.io/bharris)
--   [my personal site](https://benharr.is)
--   [github](https://github.com/benharri)
--   [gitlab](https://gitlab.com/benharri)
--   [tilde~ben](/~ben/)
+chat stuff:
+- [email](mailto:ben@tilde.team)
+- [telegram](https://t.me/bharris)
+- [twitter](https://twitter.com/nebsirrah)
 
+i'm `ben` on [tilde.chat](https://tilde.chat) and [libera](https://libera.chat).
+
+websites:
+- [my personal site](https://benharr.is)
+- [tilde site](https://tilde.team/~ben/)
+
+git:
+- [github](https://github.com/benharri)
+- [tildegit](https://tildegit.org/ben)
+
+edit: updated some links