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                         >tilde.team</a></li>
 
                     <li><strike>probably</strike> definitely spending too much time on
-                        irc??? <a href="https://tilde.chat/">tilde-irc</a></li>
+                        irc???</li>
 
                     <li>running stuff for the <a href="https://tildeverse.org/"
                         >tildeverse</a></li>
@@ -85,10 +85,14 @@
                         and hosting <a href="https://hmm.st">some</a> <a
                         href="https://tilde.team/wiki/xmpp">xmpp servers</a>.</li>
 
-                    <li>doing my best to stay safe and sane during a pandemic</li>
+                    <li>got my covid vaccine in april 2021</li>
+
+                    <li>bought a house in may 2021</li>
+
+                    <li>married my best friend on july 25, 2021</li>
                 </ul>
 
-                <p>updated december 14, 2020</p>
+                <p>updated july 29, 2021</p>
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