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-            <h1> <a href="#home">benharr.is</a></h1>
+            <h1><a href="#home">benharr.is</a></h1>
 
-            <nav> <a href="#projects">projects</a> <a href="#now">now</a> <a
-                href="#contact">contact me</a> <a href="https://tilde.team/~ben/"
-                >tilde page</a></nav>
+            <nav>
+                <a href="#projects">projects</a>
+                <a href="#now">now</a>
+                <a href="#contact">contact me</a>
+                <a href="https://benharri.org/">blog</a>
+                <a href="https://tilde.team/~ben/">tilde page</a>
+            </nav>
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@@ -64,62 +68,48 @@
             <section id="now">
                 <h1>what i've been up to</h1>
 
-                <ul>
-                    <li>living in traverse city, mi</li>
+				<ul>
+					<li>living in traverse city, mi</li>
 
-                    <li>working at <a href="https://www.hagerty.com">hagerty</a> as a
-                        software developer</li>
+					<li>working at <a href="https://www.hagerty.com">hagerty</a> as a senior software developer</li>
 
-                    <li>honing my c# skills</li>
+					<li>spending too much time on irc</li>
 
-                    <li>thinking of cool ideas for <a href="https://tilde.team"
-                        >tilde.team</a></li>
+					<li>running stuff for the <a href="https://tildeverse.org/">tildeverse</a></li>
 
-                    <li><strike>probably</strike> definitely spending too much time on
-                        irc???</li>
+					<li>playing pinball</li>
 
-                    <li>running stuff for the <a href="https://tildeverse.org/"
-                        >tildeverse</a></li>
-
-                    <li>learning about and using <a href="https://xmpp.org">xmpp</a>
-                        and hosting <a href="https://hmm.st">some</a> <a
-                        href="https://tilde.team/wiki/xmpp">xmpp servers</a>.</li>
-
-                    <li>got my covid vaccine in april 2021</li>
-
-                    <li>bought a house in may 2021</li>
-
-                    <li>married my best friend on july 25, 2021</li>
-                </ul>
-
-                <p>updated july 29, 2021</p>
+					<li><a href="https://tcpinball.org">running pinball tournaments</a></li>
+				</ul>
+                <p>updated jan 19, 2024</p>
             </section>
 
             <section id="projects">
                 <h1>projects</h1>
 
                 <p>besides <a href="https://tilde.team/">tilde.team</a>, i'm also
-                    involved in several other projects, including:</p>
+                    involved in several other projects, including:
+                </p>
 
                 <ul>
                     <li><a href="https://tildeverse.org">the tildeverse</a></li>
 
-                    <li>the original <a href="https://tilde.club"><em>tilde</em></a
-                        >, reborn</li>
+                    <li>the original <a href="https://tilde.club"><em>tilde</em></a>, reborn</li>
 
                     <li><a href="https://hashbang.sh">hashbang</a></li>
 
                     <li>volunteer staffer at <a href="https://libera.chat">libera.chat</a>,
                         the irc network for open-source and peer-directed projects.</li>
 
-                    <li>some random projects on my <a href="https://tildegit.org/ben"
-                        rel="me">tildegit account</a></li>
+                    <li>some random projects on my <a href="https://tildegit.org/ben"rel="me">tildegit account</a></li>
 
-                    <li>also <a href="https://github.com/benharri" rel="me">github</a>
-                        but i don't publish everything there</li>
+                    <li>also <a href="https://github.com/benharri" rel="me">github</a>but i don't publish everything there</li>
 
-                    <li>this site. you can find the <a
-                        href="https://tildegit.org/ben/site">source code here</a>.</li>
+                    <li>this site. you can find the <a href="https://tildegit.org/ben/site">source code here</a>.</li>
+
+                    <li>i post stuff occasionally on <a href="https://benharri.org/">my blog</a></li>
+
+                    <li>i run <a href="https://tcpinball.org/">tcpinball.org</a>, which includes two weekly tournaments</li>
                 </ul>
             </section>
 
@@ -129,38 +119,34 @@
                 <h2>chat</h2>
 
                 <p> the best way to get in touch with me is irc (if i'm not around, i'll see
-                    it soon™). i'm <code>ben</code> on <a
-                    href="https://libera.chat/">libera.chat</a> and
-                    <a href="https://tilde.chat">tilde.chat</a></p>
+                    it soon™). i'm <code>ben</code> on <a href="https://libera.chat/">libera.chat</a>
+                    and <a href="https://tilde.chat">tilde.chat</a>
+                </p>
 
                 <p>i'm also on xmpp as <a href="xmpp:ben@hmm.st">ben@hmm.st</a>.</p>
 
                 <p>if you don't have an xmpp account, you can register one on my <a
                     href="https://hmm.st">server</a>. it runs on a thinkpad in my
-                    living room!</p>
+                    living room!
+                </p>
 
                 <h2>email</h2>
 
                 <p>i have too many email addresses (eg <code>*@bhh.sh</code>), but i
                     mainly use <a href="mailto:ben@tilde.team" rel="me"
                     >ben@tilde.team</a> or <a href="mailto:mail@benharr.is" rel="me"
-                    >mail@benharr.is</a>. if you use gpg, make sure to use my tilde.team
-                    address. here's <a href="/benharri.asc">my pubkey</a>.</p>
+                    >mail@benharr.is</a>.
+                </p>
 
                 <h2>social media?</h2>
 
-                <p>i'm on <a href="https://twitter.com/nebsirrah" rel="me">twitter</a>
-                    and <a href="https://tilde.zone/@ben" rel="me">mastodon</a>, but i
-                    try not to check them all that much.</p>
-
-                <p>i am on <a href="https://hellthread.pro">bluesky</a> and it's been
-                    very fun so far. feeling cautiously optimistic for its future.</p>
+                <p>i'm on <a href="https://tilde.zone/@ben" rel="me">mastodon</a>
+                    and <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/benharr.is">bluesky</a>.
+                </p>
 
                 <h2>resume</h2>
 
-                <p>if you're curious, here's my <a
-                    href="https://tildegit.org/ben/resume/raw/branch/master/resume.pdf"
-                    >resume</a>.</p>
+                <p>if you're curious, here's my <a href="https://tildegit.org/ben/resume/raw/branch/master/resume.pdf">resume</a>.</p>
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