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                     href="https://libera.chat/">libera.chat</a> and
                     <a href="https://tilde.chat">tilde.chat</a>. i also run my own private irc server—if you're a friend of mine contact me and i'll let you in.</p>
 
-                <p>i'm also on xmpp as <a href="xmpp:satchlj@hmm.st">satchlj@hmm.st</a>.</p>
+                <p>i'm also on xmpp as <a href="xmpp:satchlj@hmm.st">satchlj@hmm.st</a>, but i currently don't use it much.</p>
 
                 <h2>email</h2>
 
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                 <h2>social media</h2>
 
-                <p>i list my accounts on the <a href="#web" rel="me">me on the web</a> page, but i really don't check them all that much.</p>
+		<p>i list my accounts on the <a href="#web" rel="me">me on the web</a> page, but i really don't check them all that much. the best way to social media me is the fediverse. i run a pleroma instance called the <a href="https://owlper.ch">owl perch</a> and i am <a href="https://owlper.ch/satchlj">@satchlj@owlper.ch</a>.</p>
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