@ -34,13 +34,13 @@ the tildeverse is a purpose-driven community, intended to provide an environment
about how they will perceive your chat messages. if people ask you to stop something, it's probably because you're being obnoxious, and you should cut it out. examples of obnoxious behavior include posting your stream of consciousness ideas when you are not actually interacting with others, repeating variations of phrases over and over, intentional join/part spam, or
interacting with bots to the point of crowding out interactions from others.
## pls don't automatically assume one's pronouns are he/him or she/her.
## don't assume pronouns
not everyone goes by those pronouns. brendo recommends assuming they/them pronouns until you either:
- check with tildebot to see if the person in question has set pronouns: `/msg tildebot pronouns <nick>`
if you know someone's pronouns, use them. try to default to they/them if you don't know.
- check with tildebot to see if the person in question has set pronouns: `/query tildebot pronouns <nick>`
- ask them!
## last but not least
be considerate to your fellow tildizens and don't forget to have fun!